A roleplay blog for the youngest Gandor brother and Baccano! character, Luck Gandor. An independent blog. Sidebar art is not mine. Mun uses he/him/his pronouns, muse uses he/him/his, they/their/theirs, and xe/xem/xey pronouns. Sometimes she/her/hers, but ask before using them for the muse ONLY!
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believeinrecovery:

A little table to how to get rid of all that negative self-talk. We have to learn look at the good in situations too, instead of dwelling on things we can’t change- because you know what? We may not be able to change what is happening but we CAN change how we view it! 

(Source: believeinrecovery)

11 hours ago
flagged as: #ricky no #the glitter maiden
Reblog if you think girls can have short hair and still be feminine.

burnt-black-wings:

My headteacher wants to introduce a rule saying girls can’t have hair shorter than chin length because it’s unfeminine. She said if I can show her 150 urls of people who agree with me then she won’t put the rule forward.

11 hours ago
flagged as: #ricky no #idespisecispeople
Send a ✿ if you would ship your character with mine.

(Source: askboxmemes)

11 hours ago
flagged as: #ricky no #askonepiecepirates
Anonymous
asked:
please tag suicide

im so sorry x.x

11 hours ago
flagged as: #suicide #noface #Asked and Answered

broliloquy:

diarrheaworldstarhiphop:

therainbowgorilla:

visambros:

tiredestprincess:

zamotdredhart:

tiredestprincess:

i just remembered people with penises can’t have multiple consecutive orgasms ohhjhhh my g OD HAHAHAHHKDFHAH

Well people with vaginas have periods so I think y’all deserve all the orgasms you want

that’s….really sweet… omfg

This post is also inclusive of transgender people this is the most positive post be seen all week

image

This entire post made me smile.

11 hours ago
flagged as: #ricky no #international spacestation

honexthaname:

phan-is-love-phan-is-life:

destined4nirvana:

sad-butsassy:

mashtonpotatoes:

slowlylosinglbs:

seeyanightvale:

eutux1a:

It’s been a few hours, you’ve just been hanging there. You’ve been quiet, too quiet. Usually there’s music playing, or your foot steps could be heard. But today, you’re quiet. Your little sister, who doesn’t normally come to greet you because you lock yourself away, decides to see what you’re doing. She assumes you’re taking a nap, or doing some homework quietly. She runs up the stairs, eager to see, but she comes to an immediate halt. You’re not doing your homework, nor taking a nap. Your music isn’t playing and you aren’t walking around. You’re hanging there, completely still, now just like her. At this moment, her whole world shatters. Everything she has ever known, looked up to, loved, is hanging there by a thread. At this moment, her life has been changed forever. At this moment, she wishes she was hanging with you.

Before you decide to take your life, imagine who will find you. Imagine them walking into a room, and seeing you just hanging there. Whether it be your little sister, little brother, mother father, grandparents, a friend. Imagine what will happen when they find you. No, they will not say “Finally, they’re gone.” No, they will not say “I’m happy they did that.” No, they will not say “I never loved them anyways.” They will die. Their hearts will break. They will hurt, more than you ever could. They will cry, scream, and break down. They’ll believe it’s all just a dream, praying to wake up. Except, they won’t feel that for a few seconds, or a few days, not weeks, nor months. They will feel that until the day they die. Everyday will be hell. They’ll think of you ever second. They’ll hate themselves for not being able to help or save you. They’ll wish they could die too. They’ll want to give up, just to be with you. They won’t be ever be happy again. They won’t smile. They won’t go back to their daily routine. They’ll die every time they walk past your room, or see a picture of you, or think of a memory with you. They’ll think, but stay quiet. They’ll visit your grave, feeling a knife go through their chest every time. And every morning when they wake up, no matter how long it’s been, they’ll wake up to thinking they’ll see you, only to be let down once again. And every night, they will cry themselves to sleep, because even though they refuse to admit it, know you’re gone forever.

Before you decide to take your life, think of your family, burying you. Yes, your own mother and father are planning your funeral. It’s supposed to be the other way around, but it’s not. They’ll have to call the cops, sign a death certificate, pick out clothing, buy a tomb stone, a casket, pick out flower arrangements, and more; All for their child’s funeral. The morning of your funeral, everyone who loves you is wearing black. Tears are streaming down their face, while their heart is breaking. Everyone who you thought didn’t need you, or didn’t care, are waiting in line to see you. They aren’t waiting in line at a party, or a graduation, or at a wedding reception. They’re waiting to see you, hands folded, lifeless, in a casket.

Before you decide to take your life, think of everyone you will be hurting. Don’t you dare say no one, because absolutely everyone will be affected. Your grandparents, won’t have a grandchild anymore. Your parents, won’t have a child anymore. Your brother or sister, won’t have a sibling anymore. Your pet, won’t have an owner anymore. That person you sit next to in class, won’t feel your presence anymore. Your teacher, won’t have a student anymore. That time your grandparents told you no, will haunt them forever, thinking it is their fault, that you are now dead. That time your parents yelled at you, will haunt them forever, thinking if they didn’t yell at you, you would still be here. That time your sibling said they hated you, will hate themselves, because they believe you would still be alive if they said they loved you instead. Those kids who made you feel bad, will wish they were dead too, because if they just smiled at you instead, you would be here. That teacher that said you didn’t meet her expectations, will feel like a failure, because you would still be here, if she believed in you. Everyone, who has ever been in your presence, will hurt, because if they showed you they cared, you would still be here.

Before you decide to take your life, think. Don’t just think of yourself, think of the consequences for everyone else. No one’s life will be the same again. That person who God made specially for you, won’t have you. That happiness that was waiting for you, will never show again. Before you decide to take your life, realize that you may be ending your pain, but you’ll be starting a lifetime of everyone elses.

If you are feeling alone, and think that suicide is the only way out:

My ask is open, and I’m always here. I’ll never judge you. I’ll try to help you.

If you are thinking of taking your life, call:

1-800-784-2433

1-800-SUICIDE

You stupid motherfuckers, don’t you dare not reblog this. Because this deserves 100K notes more than pictures of your favourite gay couple or cute cats, and yet it has 243 notes. 243 fucking notes? Fuck that. Fucking signal boost this.

I wish she had seen this.

You could save a life tonight with just one reblog

oh god I wish he had seen this that night

guys you could save a life tonight I dont care if your a colour blog or whatever reblog this now

please don’t just scroll past this because it is long, read it, reblog it, this needs to be seen

PLEASE REBLOG ;n;

(Source: writtenly)

11 hours ago
flagged as: #ricky no #idespisecispeople #ableism

thezefronposter:

effyeahfandoms:

tonystarktrek:

theangelshavetheearhat:

de4ctivate:

this might go over the heads of some of the kids on here. 

did you just

This is the greatest post I have ever seen because it is both a pun and a harsh truth.

IT’S TRANSPARENT

I showed this to my 11 year old brother and asked him if he knew what it was. He looked at it for a few seconds and said

"I dunno. a printer?"

a pRINTER

(Source: transparent-like-your-balls)

11 hours ago
flagged as: #ricky no #my mom made me change my url

auxiliaryanimorphs:

alright so ive seen this compilation post, uploaded by batmanisagatewaydrug around a million fucking times and i’m reuploading it instead of giving it more notes because it’s already at like 220k or something ridiculous like that and i’d just like to say

  1.  theroguefeminist isnt exactly known for phrasing things well & is not always well liked among sj people. what i think they were trying to say is that it’s important to recognize valid parts of people’s identities, as the original post seemed to endorse the “I don’t see you as (x)” sort of mentality
  2. i call bullshit on the messages. OP just wanted notes at the expense of feminism
  3. thebitterfrenchcanadian’s faq confirms that this is a joke and you are all gullible
  4. wolfstirfry’s sidebar says ‘that post was a joke’ on it
  5. it’s not anyone’s responsibility to educate people who are hurting them, and the commenter was making the point that OP was unlikely to have experienced that
  6. troll anon. see use of vuv and incorrect understanding of cultural appropriation
  7. emeralddragoness has deleted but honestly i think this boils down to what a person is comfortable with themselves and OP was rlly rude in response
  8. troll anon again
  9. the way this is full of buzzwords and the cutesy emote at the end makes me think its a troll post although dating, as it doesnt exist in nature, is technically a social construct (not that that’s a bad thing)
  10. this was posted by a literal neo-nazi white supremacist, formerly known as sophia-kaminski. she’s literally the furthest thing from social justice you can get. also, a note to the commenter, race is not just skin color

conclusion: tumblr is gullible as hell and will take any excuse to hate minorities who are sticking up for themselves

11 hours ago
flagged as: #ricky no #umtableforoneplease

catgirls-and-misandry:

cishaming:

the-youngest-gandor-brother:

cishaming:

the-youngest-gandor-brother:

cishaming:

smilestoinspire:

the-sad-boy:

suicide-ballet:

It really does get better, you really do get happier. One day you can throw these thoughts out of your head with a smile and never look back. Mental illness, eating disorders, and self harm may seem like a life long battle that you’re destined to lose but you can face these things. You deserve to smile, laugh, dance, sing, play, and love life. You deserve to feel happy. You deserve recovery. You may struggle with mental illness or an eating disorder but that doesn’t mean you have to suffer in silence, or suffer your whole life. You can battle these problems with friends and family, you can over come this with the help of other people.

You deserve for things to get better, and if you try to make things better, they will get better. I promise.

This is inspiring 

I love this

This post is fucking asinine. It was fine up until “if you try to make things better they get better!”

Uh, this is blaming all these people for their issues and basically saying suffering them is their own fault and they’re only to blame. You’re blaming suicidal people for being suicidal and effectively making them more suicidal because of your bullshit statement.

Why is it most of these positive things do the reverse of what they’re intended to do. ya’ll just know how to make us feel worse.

as a suicidal person myself, i can’t agree.
they’re not saying “if you’re suffering you’re not trying hard enough”, they’re just saying “if you do what you can to make things better, it will work”, as many people with suicide believe that, even if they try, it just won’t get better

Except the wording specifically says it getting better is completely connected to “trying.” As a suicidal person, this made me want to fucking kill myself because I’ve been “trying” not to be suicidal for a long fucking time and “trying” doesn’t do a god damn thing.

Leave me the fuck alone asshole.

??? except it doesn’t say that???

all i did was give my opinion on it i wasn’t even being rude or anything

i mean it’s not like i’m someone who isn’t suicidal talking about being suicidal then i could understand the backlash but wth

Except it does say that, it says that 100%. Shit like this actually makes tons of people FEEL WORSE. If it didn’t, then why was my mind’s first response to this to feel fucking ashamed for being suicidal because of it? Why did I suddenly go from feeling great to wanting to kill myself because of it? I don’t give a fuck if you are also suicidal and I don’t give a fuck about your opinion, you’re shitting on me for being upset with a post that shames suicidal people. Leave me the fuck alone.

Hi yeah, another suicidal person. Sometimes even “taking the rights steps” doesn’t work. Everyone is different. What the “right steps” are different. People have different opportunities and resources which can make it much more difficult. It’s never just about “trying” I’m 22 with a family that doesn’t believe in mental illness and no health care. Theres more to it than just “trying”. So if you can get over it by “trying” good for you. But never shame others, they are trying. We’re all always trying, if we weren’t we wouldn’t be here right now.

the post never said what those steps were, though

it just said trying would make it better

it never said what that was or what it entailed, it just said trying. as long as you’re trying, you’re alive, and living is better than dying. as long as you’re alive, things can (and usually do) improve

11 hours ago

glamorousmonstrosity:

cishaming:

the-youngest-gandor-brother:

cishaming:

the-youngest-gandor-brother:

cishaming:

smilestoinspire:

the-sad-boy:

suicide-ballet:

It really does get better, you really do get happier. One day you can throw these thoughts out of your head with a smile and never look back. Mental illness, eating disorders, and self harm may seem like a life long battle that you’re destined to lose but you can face these things. You deserve to smile, laugh, dance, sing, play, and love life. You deserve to feel happy. You deserve recovery. You may struggle with mental illness or an eating disorder but that doesn’t mean you have to suffer in silence, or suffer your whole life. You can battle these problems with friends and family, you can over come this with the help of other people.

You deserve for things to get better, and if you try to make things better, they will get better. I promise.

This is inspiring 

I love this

This post is fucking asinine. It was fine up until “if you try to make things better they get better!”

Uh, this is blaming all these people for their issues and basically saying suffering them is their own fault and they’re only to blame. You’re blaming suicidal people for being suicidal and effectively making them more suicidal because of your bullshit statement.

Why is it most of these positive things do the reverse of what they’re intended to do. ya’ll just know how to make us feel worse.

as a suicidal person myself, i can’t agree.
they’re not saying “if you’re suffering you’re not trying hard enough”, they’re just saying “if you do what you can to make things better, it will work”, as many people with suicide believe that, even if they try, it just won’t get better

Except the wording specifically says it getting better is completely connected to “trying.” As a suicidal person, this made me want to fucking kill myself because I’ve been “trying” not to be suicidal for a long fucking time and “trying” doesn’t do a god damn thing.

Leave me the fuck alone asshole.

??? except it doesn’t say that???

all i did was give my opinion on it i wasn’t even being rude or anything

i mean it’s not like i’m someone who isn’t suicidal talking about being suicidal then i could understand the backlash but wth

Except it does say that, it says that 100%. Shit like this actually makes tons of people FEEL WORSE. If it didn’t, then why was my mind’s first response to this to feel fucking ashamed for being suicidal because of it? Why did I suddenly go from feeling great to wanting to kill myself because of it? I don’t give a fuck if you are also suicidal and I don’t give a fuck about your opinion, you’re shitting on me for being upset with a post that shames suicidal people. Leave me the fuck alone.

Gandor-Brother, please try to keep in mind that just because you don’t find something offensive or triggering, it doesn’t mean that someone else doesn’t.

except i fully understand that and all i said was that “i dont agree”

i never said i was right or cishaming was wrong

i never said that it can’t make certain people feel certain things, everyone is different and therefore reacts differently

all i’m saying is that this is not shaming suicidal people and the message they are giving is only aiming for positivity, not any kind of shaming whatsoever

and “makes tones of people feel this way”? i saw a lot more positive comments on this than negative so i can’t agree on that either

"I don’t give a fuck if you are also suicidal and I don’t give a fuck about your opinion, you’re shitting on me for being upset with a post that shames suicidal people."

except i never shitted on you? all i did was explain my position on it and you exaggerated it and completely twisted what i was trying to say. i’m only defending myself

11 hours ago